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I'm just an easy going person who is keen on detail and often take nothing for face value. I believe in thoroughly investigating anything that is presented to me before embracing it. I guess I'm this way because I realize that we are living in a rapidly changing world, and each day new things are introduced... new policies, new methods of doing things, new way of thinking, etc. Yet it seem like people are always blindly embracing everything that is presented to them without looking at their origins, or their implication for the future.
But don't take that to mean that I'm saying I'm weird. I'm just saying you can't let everything that is presented to you dictate the direction in which your life is headed. You have to hold to your convictions and resist some of what is being imposed on society; at least do your research before embracing some of what has been pass off as popular trends, etc.
I'm also someone with good morals. I don't go off disrespecting people or speak to people in a derogatory fashion. I treat people as individuals, and try to find out how best to relate to each person.
I'm not a womanizer, nor do I tolerate such behavior. I love God, then my mother and my sisters too much to seek to devalue female, by looking at female as merely sexual objects.
In fact, my best friend outside of Jesus is a female, and she is my sister in the Lord. We have a good relationship, and we can freely and openly talk about any subject, while keeping our relationship wholesome in the confines of Godliness.
By the way, what most men define as strength is actually weakness. Some men think that having a lot of women is a form of strength. Actually, that's not true. This kind of thinking is just a sign of deep-rooted issues of insecurity, and the effects of rejection (often out of growing up in broken homes). It’s also born out of inferiority complex… this is evident, as they often womanize seeking to define their true identity; or often times it is done in an attempt to feel good about themselves (wanting to feel accomplish). Well, I should have gone ahead with a blog on this issue. lol.
In fact, all such behaviors and addictions are born out of unresolved deep-rooted emotional issues that breed a level of insecurity into the lives of individuals. Whether it is sexual addictions or other deviant addictive behavioral patterns… people tend to gratify these cravings rather than seek to deal with the true root issues in their lives; hence, impulsive behaviors and addictions become a pacifier to deeply embedded emotional issues.
Well, that was lengthy, but in reading through what I have written, at least you'll have a good idea of who I am.
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