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A good woman
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By:
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bassforlife9
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Mood:
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in love
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Date:
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07/03/2008 08:13:24
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Music:
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None
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Number 5
She lets you be a man
Do not -- I repeat -- do not get involved with a woman who tries to get you
to eat cottage cheese and fruit for breakfast and insists that you give up
poker night with the guys. You will end up resenting her more than you can
imagine. A good girlfriend lets you be a guy in all your glory, poker night
and all. If she's a great girlfriend, she'll even bring you and your buddies
a couple of beers and make you some of her famous sandwiches.
She has to understand that men and women are different and should allow you
to be yourself. Just like you wouldn't deprive her of going shopping with
her best girlfriend, she shouldn't expect you to give up the guys for her.
Number 4
She's nagless
There is nothing worse than a nag! A great girlfriend knows this and chooses
her battles wisely. She knows when to speak-up and when to let it slide. You
don't want a girlfriend who will give you the heights of hell for leaving a
couple of dishes in the sink occasionally.
However, if you live together and you stay out all night without calling
her, and she lets you have it, then you're setting yourself up for disaster.
This is a situation that nobody would let slide -- not even a great
girlfriend.
Number 3
She gets along with friends & family
A great girlfriend will not only help your mom in the kitchen, listen to
your dad's stories, and hang out with your friends, she will enjoy it.
She'll make a real effort to get to know and love the most important people
in your life. And she won't try to get you to ditch your best buds.
She'll actually empathize with your brother's getting dumped and suggest
that you guys take him out to cheer him up. Not only that, but your friends
won't roll their eyes and moan when you mention that she'll be joining you
guys when she gets off work (yes, women like this do exist).
Number 2
She loves you
If you have found a woman who loves you for who you really are and not who
you pretend or try to be sometimes, you should definitely hang on to her. A
woman who doesn't try to change you is hard to find. Of course, everyone has
their slightly annoying habits that their mate has to contend with, but if
she really loves you, she will be able to cope with these.
Another way to know if she really loves you is by observing the way she
looks at you and treats you on an everyday basis. If the sight of you
doesn't seem to faze her either way, and she doesn't really seem to care
about what you have to say, she's either playing very hard to get, or sees
you as just some guy. But if a surprise visit or phone call from you makes
her light up, there's no denying that she loves you.
Number 1
She makes you want to be a better man
Stop making that face... Any man who has a great girlfriend or wife will
tell you that she makes him want to be a better man. She doesn't have to say
or do anything; it just is that way. If you suddenly feel bad about how you
treated your sister or find yourself trying to get your finances in order,
you might want to think about your motivation for doing so. It could be
love
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